Welcome to the Pare Blog.

This is where we share the story behind Pare and the movement we’re building: a safer, smarter way to date for adults 40+.

Here, you’ll find:

  • Personal Stories – insights from my own journey building Pare, including why this mission is personal to me.
  • Dating & Safety Insights – practical advice for navigating the online dating world with confidence and peace of mind.
  • Behind the Scenes – updates on how Pare is being built, from product features to community partnerships.
  • Thought Leadership – perspectives on the future of dating, trust online, and what it means to create technology that protects people.

At its core, this blog is about redefining what dating over 40 should feel like: safe, dignified, and worth your time.

Whether you’re someone dating, helping a parent navigate the apps, or simply curious about the future of trust online — you’re in the right place.